Beautiful dogs, Dolly. Give them extra special bigtime hugs from me! (I picked up my Buddy's ashes today, and it stings all over again.)
yes, Oliver's grave is right in my front where I see the pile of toys, his teddy, his gravemarker & the tears flow about daily from the empty spot in my soul.
I am sorry about your loss..I wish I could give you magic answers.. some loss is not healed as easily as others it seems.
hugs