I can't fix anyone. Each person has the responsibility to fix himself. And a person can only fix himself if he is willing to take the time and effort to do so. If he is not willing to do so, he will remain broken. That (remaining broken) is his choice.
I didn't ridicule anyone. I simply pointed out errors which caused more errors. One cannot fix oneself if one doesn't know what it is that needs to be fixed. With that information, then one can fix oneself if one has the will, the humility and the courage to do so.
I truly don't understand why some get defensive when it is obvious that advice and help are being offered.
Also, Star, in response to your post about God-given rights: I appreciate the reminder. I would offer that, as a Christian, I believe more in the God, Jesus Christ, who asks us to be children of love and forgiveness, to be responsible for our own decisions relying on God's love rather than His just anger. While we have much to learn from the Old Testament, I believe the New Covenant of Our Lord Jesus Christ fulfills tha promise of the Old. Wouldn't you agree that we Christians believe in a Culture of Life? Those following evil believe in a Culture of Death. Life brings hope. We are a people of hope.