[Rummyfan]

Claudia Burns is sure she won't be one of those, in part because each of her two previous divorces taught her essential lessons about marriage. "This time, when we married, we didn't try to change each other," she says.

I would be very wary of marrying anyone already twice divorced. Of course the advantage is that as people age, I think their expectations wrt a spouse are more realistic (lower?). Good luck to her and her third husband!

[R. Scott]

Of course the advantage is that as people age, I think their expectations wrt a spouse are more realistic (lower?).

Or they become better at choosing for the right reasons – and not just because “We look so good together”.