No. It seems unhealthy to continually go back to an event which brings such pain to one's heart. The mother's response, "when I start to forget..." It is healthy to move on. You don't forget the child. You don't forget the pain. But you don't live there.
You make it sound like she's talked of nothing else for 25 years. The quote is: "If he starts to fade in my memory, I can turn to these pictures and love him all over again," said King, who gave birth March 10 at her home in Hinckley Township, Ohio.
This woman lost her child just over a month ago. If she's not quite ready to "move on" there's nothing unhealthy about it.