There are plenty of Catholics that live like they should that are not outspoken. The problem is church teaching doesn't get preached (which they shouldn't have to... they know), wouldn't want to offend the donors. As Bishop Fulton Sheen said (60's), "I want to be free, I want to be me"... they dropped their rosary beads for hippie beads around their necks and the confessional for the psychiatrist's couch. Freedom is the law and license is not freedom.