I had temporary custody of my sister's two teenagers. I had to meet with the principle to talk about legalities, change of address etc. While waiting in the office there was a constant stream of disruptive students being "towed" into the waiting area to meet with counselors, assistants, and office personal. These children were rude and some very disruptive and combative. I remember thinking to myself if this is the next generation, we are in trouble.
Even though my Charges have returned to their family, I still involve myself with their education and moral upbringing. Believe it or not, these two teenagers respect me because I have set limits and rules along with love and respect and I am convinced this is what makes us so close.
There is no shame in our society anymore. If a child misbehaves in school or in public the parents are right there claiming some sort of disability.Schools are just a place to send their unruly brats. No one is held responsible.
My son was tormented on the playground by bullies for weeks, before he finally told me. I got in touch with the principal who monitored the situation.
When it didn't stop after three warnings, three little third graders were paddled! Interestingly enough, their parents were sent home letters before the paddling. And the parents had to consent to this type of punishment. They all did.
Now, the little rugrats RUN when they see my son on the playground. They haven't forgotten the paddle!
Good points.