So what?
You can't state that they aren't molestors from outward appearances.
And you can't state that they ARE molestors! CAN YOU?
I recently moved to another state from CA, one that is much redder than CA and in the next town over, two girls, ages 10 and 12 were molested by no less than 4 men. The grandmother had some boyfriend who molested them, they were molested by their 50 some year old male babysitter, they were molested by their stepfather, and by some other man I can't recall. Do a google on Patriot News (harrisburg PA area) and look at Sunday's paper. It's all there. I would rather my lesbian neighbors raised those kids than those monsters. I would rather any of the gay parents I know raised my kids rather than those monsters.
Of all the horrid, terrible high profile crimes committed the last few years, - Carlie Brucia, Jessica Lundy (sp), Danielle Van Dam, Polly Klaas, Elizabeth Smart - all these girls were kidnapped and raped and in most cases, brutally murdered by heterosexuals. I will grant that there was ONE case I know of where two boys killed their dad and they were egged on by someone molesting them.
You know as well as I do that the molestor can be the kindly, Mr. Smith next door. The molestor can be gorgeous Debora Lafave schoolteacher type. The molestor can be the priest that counsels your kid every day, or he OR she can be the minister or Rabbi or coach or produce guy.
You just don't know. I agree with you, that you can't tell who is a molestor or not based on outward appearances....and not by sexual orientation either.