> my prayer is that God will, through his Holy Spirit, show me His plan ...
That is still an effort on your part to influence the actions of an infinite God. There is a logical inconsistency here, if one assumes that God was going to do what what Right And Proper anyway.
And PS: No, you can't say that here. This is a family forum. Shame on you.
I don't agree. On my own, my only real interaction would be to screw things up. My goal is to due justly, love mercy and walk humbly with my God. The only way I could ever pull that off is if He shows me how I ought to interact with his Will.
That is the point behind Christian obedience; I want my actions, thoughts, desires to be in sync with Gods, not the other way around. But I have to ask direction first. Then I have to be willing to follow through when I get an answer.