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Child Support Gold-Diggers
The Reality Check ^ | April 5, 2006 | Carey Roberts

Posted on 04/05/2006 8:14:34 AM PDT by FreeManDC

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To: stands2reason

If you get paid a weekly salary the state knows what you make that way -- they have access to your tax info and bank info without needing a court order.

But otherwise they will go by what the woman put on the form.

Letting them get a default is the stupidest thing you will ever do, after fathering a child you don't want.


181 posted on 04/05/2006 2:50:55 PM PDT by CobaltBlue (Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. Moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue.)
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To: CobaltBlue

My husband's child support case is also in Texas and his ex tried this same crap. The attorney generals office will not take proof of payment, it must be presented in court.

This was less than 2 years ago, I doubt things have changed since then.


182 posted on 04/05/2006 2:51:45 PM PDT by Brytani (Someone stole my tagline - reward for its return!!!)
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To: CobaltBlue

Look at the original article that started this thread. The courts mailed a copy of the order to an address the person never lived at then gave personal service to a "Jane Doe" saying it was his sister. He doesn't have a sister.

California got slammed under RICO for doing this over and over and over again. Many men never responded because the only notification they received was a garnishment on their paychecks.

Now, a guy who is served but doesn't bother to show up is one thing, someone who the state can not prove was ever served, that's totally different.


183 posted on 04/05/2006 2:54:57 PM PDT by Brytani (Someone stole my tagline - reward for its return!!!)
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To: AmishDude; jasoncann

You're both disgusting, but obviously made for each other.


184 posted on 04/05/2006 2:56:03 PM PDT by pepperdog
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To: zeugma

Anything she spends over and above what she would spend on herself if she didn't have kids is considered "child support."

Like, does she live in a place with two bedrooms instead of one? Drive a four door car instead of a two-seater?

I've never sat down to calculate what I've spent over the years on my own kids but we live in a four bedroom house instead of a one bedroom apartment, I drive a minivan instead of a two-door coupe. Not to mention food, clothing, groceries, utilities, health insurance, books, toys, games, movies, school lunches, school supplies, food and health care for their dog, etc., etc., etc. Just the shoes alone!

Don't you have visitation? What does it cost when they visit you?


185 posted on 04/05/2006 2:57:24 PM PDT by CobaltBlue (Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. Moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue.)
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To: Brytani

Look, the law gives you the right to go to court and say "I never lived there, I don't even have a sister."

The judgment can be voided but you have to actually get off your rear end and do something.

If you don't bother -- well, what is wrong with you?


186 posted on 04/05/2006 2:59:56 PM PDT by CobaltBlue (Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. Moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue.)
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To: Danae

How could they "illegally" garnish his wages for a whopping 1000 a month? I assume he is making mucho dineros then? Isn't there some kind of DNA testing that is 100% foolproof?


187 posted on 04/05/2006 3:01:54 PM PDT by Windsong (Jesus Saves, but Buddha makes incremental backups)
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To: CobaltBlue

did you bother to read the case>?!?!?! He did that, he proved he wasn't the father via paternity tests, he proved he hadn't been served the State of California said oh well, YOU PAY...

This went to Fed court and it took the Feds to stop California from doing this...


188 posted on 04/05/2006 3:03:28 PM PDT by Brytani (Someone stole my tagline - reward for its return!!!)
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To: Brytani

Why is it even in the AG's office? It should have been taken care of at the agency level.

The agency will take proof that the payments have been made.
http://www.oag.state.tx.us/child/faq.shtml


189 posted on 04/05/2006 3:04:40 PM PDT by CobaltBlue (Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. Moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue.)
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To: FreeManDC
I have a friend that had this happen to him several years ago. He dated this girl for a while, they broke up and he never heard from her again. That is, until 5 years later they came looking for him for child support. That's right, she kept it from him for 5 solid years. So...he had a DNA done and sure enough it was his. He hired a lawyer, private detective and found out quite a bit about his ex.

He counter sued, won full custody of HIS child and told her to beat it.

I like a good ending.


190 posted on 04/05/2006 3:06:19 PM PDT by unixfox (The 13th Amendment Abolished Slavery, The 16th Amendment Reinstated It !)
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To: Brytani

Sorry, but I don't accept the facts as related by a non-lawyer.

Reason being, I've been practicing family law for almost 20 years.

I hear all kinds of stories but 9 times out of 10 (99 times out of 100, really) the people telling the stories don't understand what happened.


191 posted on 04/05/2006 3:07:57 PM PDT by CobaltBlue (Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. Moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue.)
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To: ga medic
So a man makes 1 mistake and he is suppose to pay for it for the rest of his life. You just made a mistake by not reading the article before you posted your thoughts.

What was your income from last year?

How much can we expect from you?

How long will you continue to make payments?

192 posted on 04/05/2006 3:08:14 PM PDT by A Cyrenian
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To: unixfox
He counter sued, won full custody of HIS child and told her to beat it.

I doubt very much he was able to make her "beat it."

193 posted on 04/05/2006 3:11:21 PM PDT by CobaltBlue (Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. Moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue.)
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To: A Cyrenian

It's really very simple.

If you keep your pants zipped, you won't ever have to pay child support.


195 posted on 04/05/2006 3:12:22 PM PDT by CobaltBlue (Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. Moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue.)
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To: CobaltBlue
I doubt very much he was able to make her "beat it."

Oh but the story gets better. She got busted for drugs before AND after all this happened. So yes he was able to tell her to beat it.


196 posted on 04/05/2006 3:14:56 PM PDT by unixfox (The 13th Amendment Abolished Slavery, The 16th Amendment Reinstated It !)
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To: Quilla

Hey, not only did I not get any child support (he was supposed to pay $30 a week for 2 children ($15 ea for the mathematically challenged) but I got to make the car payments and he got the car. On the other hand my wonderful, responsible husband that I found the second time around got to pay alimony and child support in such gracious amounts that my working full time did not keep up with the outgo to his ex-wife and children. But it was worth it for both of us, at least we found each other and we have been the responsible one's in all our children's lives.


197 posted on 04/05/2006 3:16:13 PM PDT by pepperdog
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To: unixfox

The only way to completely deny visitation is to have parental rights terminated.

But it's possible to make the interactions so painful that the non-custodial parent would rather not exercise visitation rights.

Nothing to be proud of, except in Jerry Springer Land.


198 posted on 04/05/2006 3:17:09 PM PDT by CobaltBlue (Extremism in the defense of liberty is no vice. Moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue.)
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To: jasoncann

And what truth would you be referring to?


199 posted on 04/05/2006 3:26:06 PM PDT by pepperdog
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To: houeto

That sounds familiar. I hope someone who was wrongly convicted doesn't draw that judge. The judge would tell him well, since you've already served 11 years, you might as well serve another 12 years.


200 posted on 04/05/2006 3:28:14 PM PDT by Enterprise (The MSM - Propaganda wing and news censorship division of the Democrat Party.)
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