Why is it so hard for you to admit what you do to how you look says something about you?
As for the rest of your missive: FRiend, you're stuck on cliche.
1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
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Excerpted from The Complete Multimedia Bible based on the King James Version Copyright (c) 1994 Compton's NewMedia, Inc.
I think I like where I am.
I cannot change how you look at others from this keyboard.
Only experience can do that for you.
Should I assume that rhinoplasty, breast enhancement, orthodonture, botox, and liposuction (etc.) are good self mutilation and other self-mutilation is bad just because the 'good' self-mutilation might be more pleasing to the eye of some beholders? Or should I relegate those people too, to the ash heap of society for daring to change their appearance?
You think how you will, FRiend, that is your burden, not mine.