That isn't a libertarian view. It's authoritarian. It is imposing your moral judgement on everyone else when there is no direct initiation of force, fraud or theft by the primary actors. Stringing out a list of abuses of government hardly proves the point you are trying to make. In fact, it butresses the point that without government in the first place, it wouldn't BE an issue.
What you and your housemates arrange amongst your consenting adult members is of ZERO concern to me. I may never invite you over for a barbeque, or offer you a place on my companies board of directors, but I'm also not going to advocate that hired government guns pull a raid on you either.