[AD from SpringBay]

My 20 year old who still lives at home, in good health with no extenuating circumstances, will be paying rent commensurate with the current housing market, helping with utilities, groceries, and helping with chores, AND, abide by house rules.

[summer]

AND, abide by house rules.

This is the part I really don't understand -- why would a guy (or a young woman) WANT to be at home at 20 years of age, still abiding by their parents' "rules" -- which doesn't mean to imply you don't live by those rules all your life in some respects.

But, why at age 20 would a young adult not want to LEAVE and go out and experience the world? I couldn't wait to move out, and I came from a very happy childhood.