IF?????
Why the hell can't people just apologize instead of making caveats all the time.
I think people think it makes them sound smart, like a lawyer or something. In fact, it just makes a person sound like a pretentious jerk who is trying to weasel out of something.
I don't like that kind of tentative talk in apologies, either/ "IF I MIGHT had said anything, that MAY have offended...."
That's just not an apology. To me, a meaningful apology at least must 1. unambiguously acknowledge that the person has done wrong, and 2. isn't heavily solicited.