"Actually, if this had been my boy, I'd have read him the riot act. I'd tell him, "Don't give me that 'victim' crap! You knew what you were doing! She' married, for god's sake! What the heck did I teach you!""
I was just jesting about the difference between boys and girls in the same position. In reality I would smack the boy upside the head if she were married let alone other considerations, i.e. unmarried & unprotected & you don't know this girl & a million other things......But man she is good looking..MUST FIGHT THE BLONDE URGE.......
Oh, yeah -- don't get me wrong, I would *understand* why he did it!