Another issue to consider is the state of people today and how the developments over the last 40 or so years have changed society. We are not 35 years or so into the age of divorce and the effects are rather chilling. We are also into our 4th decade of feminism and the destruction that has wrought.
I see people being far more confused about their choices and with good reason.
Despite the screaming headlines that the press never fails to lay out, most marriages do not end in divorce. A relatively small number of people rack big divorce numbers and it is played to the hilt by the MSM.
Children today are given a set options and told that all those options are equal when, in fact, they are not. They lack the ability to to make good decisions because no one has told them what is good and what is bad. A good remedy to this unfortunate state of affairs in membership in a conservative church. They will know the right thing to do, even if the situation is ummmm ...fuzzy.