I think it was your statement that you get to date alot of cute girls with no strings attached.
Certainly - if someone wants to do this, they are free to do this.
I simply found it odd advice to give to a guy who obviously wants to find a wife.
That you think dating alot of girls with no strings is a good thing is what I picked up on.
Maybe it isn't a good thing - especially for someone who is looking forward to experiencing a healthy marriage.
You are describing the kind of guy I advise my daughter to stay far far away from.
There is an advantage to datings lots of women with few strings attached: you get to see what a variety of people are like and you get better in maintaining your end of a good relationship.
The no strings aspect just means if the relationship gets sour for whatever reason, its usually not complex to move on: no lawyers, division of property, etc.
Lots of people who date sincerely want to find spouses. They are not mututally inconsistent positions.