[Scotswife]

"There's nop rush to get married - play the field at least a decade more or so, then get serious about it. You get to date lots of cute girls with few strings this way, and then at the end you can get the life you want. No sense in clipping your wings too soon."

So...you get to spend alot of time with no committment....just using other people for gratification and fun while knowing you don't intend to truly appreciate them - that you will dispose of them once they become too demanding?

This does not sound like good preparation for the mindset it will take to become a good spouse in a healthy marriage.

[HitmanLV]

I wouldn't characterize it at all as 'using people.' I didn't say lie & cheat. I didn't suggest saying anything in order to get any particular babe in bed that night, and then never see them again. Nobody is being forced to date, or remain, with anybody else.

I also never suggested that anybody dispose of anybody because they are too demanding. I don't know where you got this stuff - you impute all sorts of bad things to my comments that weren't there, exaggerate them, and then become exceedingly judgmental about them.

That's not clarity at all, sorry.