Having once run a web dating site, and ran statistical analysis on the interactions, I can tell you the women are just as bad, only with different criteria. Forget it if you are bald, short, do not have a "professional" career (and salary), or are more than 5 years older than her.
Guys are hard-wired to be maximally attracted to women who are healthy, fit ( healthy + fit = attractive, generally speaking) and in their prime childbearing years
A dream man by a woman's standard is man with a "10" wallet. Look at the extremely young and extremely beautiful women that marry old but very wealthy men. Isn't there a lawsuit by a beautiful woman that married a wealthy guy who is now dead who wants a piece of his estate?