I would never convert. Folks who do must have not had much of an affection for whatever religion they were brought up with.
Expose them to both and let the children decide for themselves would be my suggestion.
I have known some less strident Jewish gals to be fair....maybe it's the Lilith myth...I used to think it was an Eastern European thing but Polish Catholic girls are quite different.
Has Judaism always encouraged women to be bossy? I would think not...at least not what I know of the Old Covenant or the Talmud
But...I think some Latino, most Southern and some Asian chicks make the easiest to live with wives...
but some guys like a challenge
Good Luck to ya
I'm very married with my 5th spawn in the oven...to a very similar culture woman which is just easier
You don't know many Latinas, do you? :-P