Posted on 03/15/2006 12:10:09 PM PST by Kieri
I sympathize with the mom but legally the dad is correct.
Men have become such crybabies! Suck it up and support YOUR child.
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I opened this half-hoping to find the lawsuit I have been waiting for which would turn the abortion debate on it's head. Namely, a Mom intent on an abortion with a Father who was asserting his parental rights over the unborn in order to allow the child to be born so that he could claim sole custody. Instead I find a deadbeat Dad unwilling to take responsibility for his actions. Sheesh.
"I believe life begins at conception and blossoms,"
No doubt she arrived at that belief just after she was informed it was too late to have it yanked.
The point is the inequality:
If he wanted the baby and she didn't, she could abort.
If he doesn't want it and she does, he can't abort.
Does that sound fair?
And on top of it, if he doesn't want the baby and she does, then he has to pay for 18 years? Why aren't they married?
So the woman has all the cards, and the man just has to shut up and pay.
Now after all this, I must say that I am totally against abortion. But I've been saying the same thing for years! I think that the logic of this will reverse Roe v Wade.
ie: how can she single-handedly terminate, yet demand his financial help if she decides to keep the baby.
But in this case it's even worse, first of all they aren't married, (yea I know, so what...), and additionally it looks like she trapped him by telling him that she couldn't conceive! I mean that's like winning the lottery.
Get a rich boyfriend, tell him you're on the pill, oops I'm pregnant, but you're not really what I'm looking for, so just set up a direct deposit please.
I have heard all the same arguments over and over. Bottom line - you father a child, it is your responsibility (I know many people don't like that word) to support your "love child". If you don't like it, do not get a woman pregnant!
I agree. The dad should pay the $500 monthly support.
Then he should turn around and sue that lying #?!%% for $500 x 12 months x 18 years.
The end result.... Nobody wins. Especially the poor child.
But this whole Roe vs. Wade for Men is not about men trying to shirk financial responsibility.
It's about pointing our the sheer hypocrisy that femi-nazi's claim as the have unilateral rights that men do not.
It's about putting and end to the murder known as abortion.
I applaud this woman for making the choice to have her baby and keeping it and wanting to raise it in a healthy enviroment.
On the other hand, women, and especially feminists, have practically begged for this type of reaction from men since they decided to exclude men from any of the decision making processes concerning pregnancy.
Since late-term abortions are legal, your comment is uncalled for.
In other words, she was happy to take him to bed, and now she's happy to take his money, but actually marry the dude? No way.
I agree. Ideally, all persons should be responsible for the children they create.
However, the government does not require this of mothers, who have special post-conception options like abortion. The government should not give preferential rights to some people and only responsibilites to others. Until we can reach the ideal world where all parents must own up to their responsibilities, I think we must have equal treatment under the law.
I'm all for ending abortion. I am not, however, for letting men out of their legal responsibilities because they didn't want a child.
The illogic of abortion strikes again.
Well, it's a "he said, she said" thing about whether or not she actually told him that.
Regardless, he still had choices, like to use a condom, or not have sex in the first place!
If you are screwing someone, you should be absolutely sure you want that person in your life for at least the next 18 years & 9 months.
So, she's pro-life and you're still against her? That's harsh.
Is there any evidence he wants to get married?
Guy has a helluva case. Going to be interesting to see how it pans out, and how much attention the panning gets...
Guys a crybabies?? Wow... ...thats real deep...
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