That doesn't mean they'd solve the welfare state by making a police state version of DCFS. Your "cure" makes the disease look like a picnic.
Oh, and you still haven't said what you'd do with gay couples who already have kids.
It doesn't have to be that way at all. In fact, it would work better without the existence of a DCFS. There's no reason placement couldn't be managed by any number of insured volunteer agencies.
Your "cure" makes the disease look like a picnic.
And yours is?
It isn't a cure, it's a tourniquet. It would seem you haven't spent much time in a MediCal hospital nursery, becuase if you had you'd know who is having the majority of children these days. My wife managed such a nursery. Now she works an infertility unit. Guess who the big paying customers there are?
Oh, and you still haven't said what you'd do with gay couples who already have kids.
Stop the bleeding and grandfather it. Leaving the situation as it is will inevitably lead to both gay marriage and continue abetting ephemeral heterosexual marriage, the result of which is the destruction of its meaning entirely.