I've got a standing offer for some BBQ from a generous FReeper in NJ. I'll be partaking when I get up that way.
We got a place near me called Damon's Grill sells southern style BBQs. You know, them little burger like shredded pork thingies. used to eat them all the time down in Bama. you ever come up to NJ, I'll partake with ya, but i doubt it will meet southern standards.