You've been reading too many Personal ads and not enough history books.
Your description of the perfect woman reminds me of a story.
There was once a man who searched for the perfect woman. He search high and low, far and wide and for many years, believing that she was out there somewhere. He spent all of his money and time making himself the kind of man that such a woman would be endeared to. He met many a woman, but none of them filled his expectation of the perfect woman.
Then one day he met her. She was perfect. It was the fulfillment of his life's pursuit. But to his utter disappointment, he discovered, that she was looking for the perfect man.
Turn off the TV. Pickup a book. Preferably a Bible. And learn what a perfect man and a perfect woman really are.
Whoa...you took that much more deeply than I meant it!
I was just trying to make a distinction between strong and mean.
Funny story though!
Good post!