[Reaper FReeper]

I wrote this essay a long time ago and I think it wold go great here:
Things that the schools are doing wrong...


1. The schools make there curriculum based on a females learning style and behavior.
2. Boys who's are energetic are usually forced to conform to the use of mind altering drugs, such as Ritalin.
3. Natural male aggression is not channeled, but suppressed.
4. High divorce rates have left many young boys without role models.

These problems produces young men who are Mentally unstable. They are stuck in a perpetual state of childish behavior. These boys never have male role models to show them how to treat people and behave like a gentleman when it is necessary. They will suppress aggression until they finally have a collapse and can't deal with daily pressures. The boys also are used to the new victim mentality, playing weak and saying "Poor me, you all owe me for my problems." These boys further more have no idea the importance of fidelity and commitment. They also have no reason to trust other people.
As a teenage female I am now thing about my future and what I have to look forward to. The school system has made my prospective husbands permanent weaklings. I look for in a male for him to actually be a "MAN" not a cowardly boy. I see now that the schools have drugged or ruined most of the men that are growing up in this world today. I am shocked that I now have to marry and raise a male in a society that basically does not allow male behavior. I would like to know how that world expect me to to marry a man who is unfit from lack of exercise and has a lower IQ and less self esteem. I want a man who is loyal, honorable, hard working, disciplined and physically powerful. I also think that my children will require a strong male role model who will put his foot down when needed.
Is that too much to ask? I think not. I think this is the basic need for all women. A woman has to take care of her children and the home. She needs a man who can stand by her, support her decisions and give her what she requires to manage the home and children!
So tell me Freeper were do I find such a MAN when I grow up?!

[ColdSteelTalon]

Well young lady,

You can find them in just about any Bible believing Baptist (independent fundamentalist KJV only) Church. That's where. The men there are taught to be men and work hard to support their wives and children.

[tertiary01]

Some advice to you: Drop the Goth stuff, it's a turn off to the type of man you desire. Then get an education for a profession, join a good church or move to an area where you will have a good chance to meet that man. Sounds like you want the rugged independent more outdoorsy type.

[Soaring Feather]

I am shocked that I now have to marry and raise a male in a society that basically does not allow male behavior. I would like to know how that world expect me to to marry a man who is unfit from lack of exercise and has a lower IQ and less self esteem.

Well, now Reaper FReeper, as far as I can see You Don't HAVE to marry anyone. Only if you wish to. ;)
I do see your and your peers dilemma. Don't rush anything. You have your whole life to meet Mr. Right.
Thanks for the ping.