Thank you, it is definitely thanks to Him that I'm where I am today. For a long time I had revenge on my mind. Now, I have pity and disgust at the person who did it. I hope someday he finds forgiveness and grace.
I tried to respond to your post - I typed out 2 different things and then just closed the browser without posting. I don't know what to say other than I am so sorry you went through what you did and ended up with permanent troubles because of it. Would it help if I said that by getting the information and your story out in public, you may be saving other women from ending up in your situation and you just may save a baby's life if the mother is reading FR tonight? I hope that the resources you put in your post will help other people understand.
I think you are very brave for telling your story on here, it's such a volatile subject. His grace be with you as you continue your journey. It's good to know we always have one friend even when it seems the rest of the world is turned against us.
Thank you so much for your gracious, life-affirming words. You have been a channel of His blessing to me today.