[cyborg]

I have to disagree with you. I've met more than a few women who've had them and regretted them bitterly. I do think that a lot of women who've had abortions because the boyfriend wanted it or because it got in the way of their career do regret it later on (esp. if they go on to have other children).

[jdm]

" I do think that a lot of women who've had abortions because the boyfriend wanted it or because it got in the way of their career do regret it later on (esp. if they go on to have other children)."

I would think abortion, period, would cause mental distress later on. I would be surprised if a rational mind can trick itself into separating "wrong" vs. "not great, but what else can I do?" Any attempt to successfully sweep the decision under the rug would be tough, I think. Very big decision; very small rug for which to use as a cover.