It is EASY for me to accept that this woman "had no clue"I know too many like that. One young lady thought her guy was going to marry her. He had actually a pretty decent job. She didn't go to jail when he got caught a couple of years ago but she has become paranoid of men. Fr her paranoia is probably a good thing. Her problem is atrocious judgment.
Maybe we need a war on atrocious judgment.
We have got to change the messages that women are getting. We ARE responsible for our own decisions.