These women know"the game"backwards and forwards.Many of them grew up around"ballers"and hustlers,often in their own families.Then they get popped and want to play this poor innocent little me game and manipulate the system to the fullest.
Bulloney!If this woman gave a damn about her kid she would never have let that low life in her house.
I know many are just as you describe, others though are truly clueless. I guess we have to hope for a system that can sort them out.