I smoked for over 30 yrs before I quit ("You should try it one time")_...
I was never so selfish or wrapped up in my cigarettes to expect anyone else to go live in a tent or build a wing for me to escape my disgusting habit.
If you smoked for 30 years then you smoked prior to the ETS insanity.
You lit them when you lit them and no one cared---you were not being thoughtful,it just wasn't an issue.