Maam, you are describing most smokers. My husband and I refuse to smoke in places where there are kids, however most people bring their kids into areas that are blue with smoke and then complain about the smoke even though their are nonsmoking areas for them.
I used to be like that.
Now, I just tend to smoke wherever I want. Got that "fill-up-the-door" thing going on, and I'm plenty tired of being polite.