Correct; however in the example you cite, one could and would be considered an adulterer strictly from a spiritual aspect e.g. a sinful transgression wherein your soul is the only thing damaged and no one save God knows it objectively...
When speaking of legislation, law enforcement, benefits, and or minority status etcetera there is no accommodation for 'feelings' -objectively, I would argue that there is no accommodation for feelings even possible.
Once one realizes that this 'feelings' thing is the center pole holding up the homosexual agenda big tent THEN one understands that the homosexual agenda big tent is but another leftist circus attraction that at best entertains but can never merit anything else e.g special rights, minority status, 'marriage', etcetera...
Another point about feelings or desires is that everyone has all kinds of feelings, thoughts and desires passing through the mind. What our job as humans is to discriminate between which desires to enact, and which to reject. And the funny thing is, the more we reject a desire, it loses its strength, and gradually diminishes. Even goes away. THe more we indulge, it grows in strenth, and makes more demands.
No one could possibly follow every desire that pops up. And we're meant not to.