Exactly; people call it murder all the time, why not then treat it as such? I've seen people call for the death penalty or imprisonment for the doctor - but not for the woman. In cases where someone has hired a hitman, the person who hires pays the same penalty as the hitman. Is this what people want?
In my time following the abortion debate, I've never found a logical and acceptable answer as to why the woman should get off scott free. The usual answer is that the woman is somehow also a victim and should be treated as such, but of course, we don't apply this logic to a thief who steals because he's poor, or a murderer who killed because he was raised by an abusive father. Every criminal can be said to be a victim in some sense.