I have been there and just wish somehow we can stop this crap once and for all. To me, raising children to kill other children over something that happened over 800 years ago is a crime in itself.
The Muslims are more guilty of this than anyone else and the Serbs and Croats are more than willing to comply. I am willing to bet that the average Serb and Croat probably is sick and tired of all this fighting also.
This is minor, its the residuals of WWII and the 45 subsequent years of Tito that really helped make matters into what they are today.