No they have not given the amount of people voting to pass defense of marriage acts.
Additionally, the parents I know do not want homosexuals around their children.
It has be stated repeatedly that people will say one thing to pollsters but keep their unPC opinions from pollsters.
People under thirty are far more tolerant of homosexual behavior, more inclined to think it a matter of personal taste. I agree that most find it, to a degree, disgusting. Ironically, there are probably more "incidenst of violence against gays than when I wsas in high school, becayse themn they concealed their "orientation" and now express it more openly. But increasingly it is becoming government policy to protect this behavior.