See my post #3. I hear ya. My experience is that they want some evidence of gonads, but not necessarily have that evidence rub them raw sensitive places. :)
No matter the idiotic Hollyweird craze of terrible looking five o'clock shadow, it just isn't "sexy"! Actually, I think that that was thought up by homo/metrosexuals.
And most men can't pull off facial hair of any kind. They either look scruffy/dirty, or just plain silly.