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I gave her everything she asked for and I didn't buy her like a pathetic John buying a prostitute.

I don't know where in the hell you are getting your information about AM meeting RW, but I will say you exhibit one of the most profound cases of ignorance I have ever seen.

Firstly, the term mail order bride is completely wrong. You cannot order these ladies through the mail.

Secondly, there isn't any prostitution involved unless that is between the AM and RW...PERIOD.

Thirdly, what the AM is purchasing from the agency is a name, address, and maybe a phone number. There are additional services the AM might purchase such as gifts, flowers, translation services, etc.

Fourthly, I went through over 30,000 profiles, wrote many ladies, and settled on one I was determined to marry. I wrote daily and phoned her for 7 months prior to my first visit.

Fifthly, In August 2000 I spent one wonderful month with my future wife. We planned everything in advance, and were together every day from early in the morning until she had to go home at night. We ate out, traveled, and did everything most couples do.

Sixthly, I asked Nadya to marry me, and she said yes. That said, we knew it was going to be some time before the wedding, and so this was similar to an engagement. When I returned home I filed papers with the INS for Nadya to come to America on a K-1 visa, which takes months to approve.

Seventhly, we wrote or spoke on the telephone daily until she arrived in America in April 2001. During the next month we dated and spent time with each other on a daily basis. We were married in late May.

Contrary to what you are thinking most AM/RW stories are similar. If the truth is know we do more honest to goodness COMMUNICATION than at least 98% of the AM/AW couples I have known. Most of the AM/RW couples I know have very successful marriages.

Finally, you don't have a clue what you are discussing. I would include most of the other people on this thread in with you.