Perhaps the worst blame could be lodged with the legislature. The moral being that if your spouse has gotten a court order on you, don't you DARE gamble that he or she has changed his or her mind without seeing it on paper from that same court.
You have to draw the line somewhere or are you going to blame the voters as well.
The moral being that if your spouse has gotten a court order on you,
Actually the moral is don't get married. And if you are a guy and live in Calf, don't have sex with women either because a few years ago the Calf state supreme court ruled that if a man and woman have consentual sex, should the woman change her mind the morning after the event it is rape. There is a man serve time for 'rape' because of this ruling.