No, it wasn't Gloria Steinem. It was an Australian woman, but I can't remember her name.
Germaine Greer. Although I never agreed with her either, she was the most intelligent of this bunch, and for a woman of her views, not the least bit unfeminine. One of the best debates on Bill Buckley's Firing Line back in the early 70's was between her and Bill. It was a draw, believe it or not, if I remember correctly. This was one smart chick. I wonder what her attitudes are like now?
As a highly educated and accomplished British woman that I knew, who served on her local council, and was a loyal Tory in the tightly zoned incredibly beautiful precincts of the borderland between Kent and Sussex near Tunbridge Wells, living in this sumptuous home built in 1575 with hallways upstairs that sloped due to something whenever, a house with a name ("rooted" houses down there all have names), with a solicitor aka lawyer husband, and three sons, told me at the time, somewhat defensively, Germaine is really too intelligent to really believe all of this.
You're right, and I don't remember her name, either.
I believe the quote the Aussie said was: "Man needs God like a fish needs a bicycle."
It was about the same time Friedan came out with her "Mystique" opus.