I wonder, if Christ were here, do you think He'd have an issue with a gay male pretending to be straight? I doubt that He'd see it or approve of a homosexual male. Sure there are other sins but this one is a slap in His face - denying who you are to marry or be united with.
But humans cannot deal out the wrath of God. Our judgement is imperfect. And often we are not able to forgive as we are called to do. I would think when it comes to judging a homosexual male, God will judge such a man in a way that I cannot even begin to fathom. And I would much rather leave that to God, and trust that He will deal with it in His own time.