There's a really easy response to this ... President and Mrs. Bush should invite Debra Burlingame and Lisa Beemer to sit up in the gallery in the First Lady's section. Bush should then publically recognize them for their efforts (Burlingame, iirc, has been in those ads supporting the Patriot Act) and as a reminder that we can't forget 9-11.
Yes on Debra. Lisa went t the dark side on something about money.