I like the feel of the 44 better. It feels more comfortable in my hands. My 44 is only a five shot though...I don't like that because you are suppose to take 2 center mass and one to the head. Five shots wont help you much if there are more than one person.
When I did my research to help me decide what I would buy, the 44 was the best listed in kill ratio. The 45 was close behind!
My 45 is a Ruger, it's a little larger than my 44. My 45 is going to be my new carry gun, while the 44 is going to stay in my room for my overnight protection.
That's good thinking. Let's pray you never need either...but good on ya' for being prepared.