[metmom]

That's right. I grew up hearing two different languages being spoken at family gatherings, depending on the side, and yet they all knew English well enough when they didn't care what the kids were hearing. In those days, they considered it essential to learn English and they tried hard to do it. People who didn't take the time and effort to learn English were looked down upon and speaking one's native language was frowned on. While I agree with some of it, I am also disappointed to have lost the chance to be fluent in two other languages.

[Bear_Slayer]

I believe in having an etablish language. It something that brings various cultures together.

I also think there is strength in knowing multiple languages.

A family friend survived WWII concentration camp because he spoke multiple languages and could translate for the germans within the camp. He came to America and though he retains much of his culture, he is more loyal to America than most Americans.

[ArmyTeach]

... and speaking one's native language was frowned on. We have a soldier who came to us speaking rudimentary English. That was three years ago. Today he has not only excelled on his Army Personnel tests, but is about to complete his AA degree. He is fluent in written and spoken English, albeit with an accent that doesn't interfere with this communication.His wife is also doing well in the nursing program at the 'U.' I heard another soldier ask our guy to say something in Romanian. All he got was 'the look.'