[brwnsuga]

You say your husband disagrees. You imply he is insecure in his masculinity. You really think that?

Please, don't insult my husband because you disagree with me. I am only stating my opinion.

[grobdriver]

These are your words: "Maybe it is a man thing. Because if you are secure in your masculinity, why is it so threatening to be ogled by another dude? Its not going to cause you to turn (like some kind of vampire)".

Now, you say your husband disagrees with you. So you might as well direct this question to him.
I don't insult your husband - I honor him and his service.
You are welcome to your opinion, however inexperienced and heretofore uninformed it may be.
Perhaps you will take this opportunity to reevaluate your opinion in light of new information from those who have been there, done that - regardless of how that information may conflict with your feelings.