I prefer to trust in God. Because God knows what is best for me and my family...more than even I do..
It is a matter of faith and perspective.
If we all changed our plans because the NWS issues a "severe thunderstorm watch"...we would miss out on some afternoons.
Just because conditions are favorible for something, doesnt mean it is going to happen. If there is a 50% of rain showers, I am not staying home from a Reds game.
Only God knows what the future will bring.
>>Only God knows what the future will bring.<<
Amen - and the clay has no right to object to the Potter.
I agree that God knows what the future will bring,
However,
like the the parable of the Talents, he gives you abilities and gifts....and often a clue as to what kind of parent you might be.
IMO, if you know that you're lacking, or struggling, or not capable....and have things that need 'fixing' or may never been fixed...ie, he's given you a talent into insight...
Then not having a child is using that gift correctly.
Bringing a child into the mix cuz 'I'm supposed to' well, I've seen kids damaged from that kind of scenario also. Sadly, some of the 'best' person in some ways is often the worst person to raise a child.
Not everyone's purpose on this planet is exactly the same. Some people are meant to be parents, others are not. Those who have the courage to say "I'm not one of them" and not bow to pressure are listening to God also.