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Did you stay fundamental?
:) - well I suppose to most I would be .... and to some not at all....
I do know that I wasn't offended by the thought that it may be a sin for CHRISTIAN people to make choices for themselves - rather than seeking the will of God.
After we had our first son - we truly planned on only the one.. our lives were a perfect little package. Then with all the preventions short of surgery - I became pregnant again - and lost that little guy to our great sorrow. So our second son was planned... thankfully this time by both God and us.
I waited MANY years to finally stay home - and without going into all the details as to HOW God finally showed me it was time to give up career and stay home... I heeded what I feel is His will for me and my family and became a stay at home mom at age 45... and my youngest son 16. I know there are times I regret that lost time - but also know God knows my heart so I'm not too rattled by it.. ;-)