I don't have any of my own kids, but do want to adopt some day. If those kids are going to a good family, I don't care if they have kids or not.
I suppose the point is that there aren't enough kids to go around and so they should go to people who can't have them. I'm not sure there aren't enough kids, altho there is a dearth (so I've heard) of adoptable white infants. My brother went thru the foster care system and adopted a little boy who was about 2 1/2. Great kid, btw. If he had been stuck on an infant, I'm not sure he would have one yet. Oh, and yes, he's married, I realize I made that sound like he was single.
susie