[Fawn]

Then you don't fit in the definition of mail bride orderer. When that term is used, it is directed towards men who purposely marry a foreign woman because they dislike American woman. (they can't handle us :)

[DTogo]

Then you don't fit in the definition of mail bride orderer.

No, marrying someone I've never met was never a desire. Had one blind date in college: first and last.

...men who purposely marry a foreign woman because they dislike American woman. (they can't handle us :)

For some it's not a question of "dislike" but rather of preference, or simply finding the right person who just happens to be a non-American.

[SauronOfMordor]

Then you don't fit in the definition of mail bride orderer. When that term is used, it is directed towards men who purposely marry a foreign woman because they dislike American woman. (they can't handle us :)

When somebody decides he prefers a Nissan over a Ford, it's not because he can't "handle" Fords, or that he has psychological problems relating to Fords. He just happens to think that Nissans are better made and generate fewer problems over their operating lifetime.

While some may feel that they have a duty to "Buy American", others just think that it's masochism to buy a product that you're unhappy with, just for the sake of "Buying American".