A lot of people must have weak marriages if they are constantly "threatened" by porn, gay marriage issues, etc...
I have been baffed over this often. Professional or porn based on degradation, S&M, Yes, I suppose. Videos of exhibitionistic couples having a good time simply creates a party atmsophere for us; We have both rented them. And we both fight over who gets to rake the front lawn, in order to observe the joggers.
We are married (To the original people..that's the Hard Way) Forty Years this year.
There has to be something fundamentally wrong with a marriage in the first place if it is so easily undermined by entertainment. Maybe people fail to keep it in perspective? We started out good-enough looking in the first place that we were not imagining any video characters as replacements; The attitude has endured though we are currently, well...OK..Fat, Old, and Ugly.
This is probably one of the stupidest moral relative arguments I have read all day! DU would enjoy such profound logic.