Someone needs to ask Durbin why abortion is a "hard, painful, tragic" decision? If it's not murder, why is it so "hard, painful, and tragic"? Why is it not a good thing? If a woman needs her appendix taken out, I would tell her to have it removed and I would consider that a good thing. Why is abortion any different?
That is the crux of the lie of abortion. If abortion is NOT the termination of life, there is no reason to try to make it rare, or discourage it.
Of course, democrats are not actually DOING anything to make it rare, or discouraging it, so they don't actually MEAN what they say -- it's just that most americans say it should be rare so that's what the democrats say to try to keep a few people voting for them.