You and your husband are doing the right thing - don't let anyone try and convince you otherwise!
Day Care warehouses and public schools are liberal, socialist indoctrination centers bent on imposing their agenda.
I was convinced we had done the right thing when my 6 year old nephew (who is public-schooled) told me that "sometimes it's ok for a boy to dress like a girl, and a girl to dress like a boy". Said they talked about it in class. I wanted to cry.
Unfortunately we cannot afford to homeschool our children. I'm not 100% sold on it as the best way anyways.
No daycare for our kids but our 4 year old son goes to preschool 3 days a week from 9am to noon. The preschool also has a daycare. This school actually is housed in a church. My son's preschool class has no more than 10 kids in it at any time during the week. They've are even teaching the Pledge and they teach them a prayer or two.
We are discussing sending them to Catholic school for grades 1 thru 8. Depends on finances.
I want to puke. God save the children!